diff --git a/content/perception-is-sticky.md b/content/perception-is-sticky.md new file mode 100644 index 0000000..c8595a6 --- /dev/null +++ b/content/perception-is-sticky.md @@ -0,0 +1,119 @@ ++++ +title = "Perception is Sticky" +date = 2020-07-19 +draft = true +[taxonomies] +tags = [ + "perception", + "management", + "leadership", +] ++++ +# Perception can make or break your culture + +**Perception**: +> a mental image; +> quick, acute, and intuitive cognition; +> capacity for comprehension; +> [Merriam-Webster](https://www.merriam-webster.com/dictionary/perception) + +Perception is our word for how people experience and comprehend the world +around them. When you are in leadership, understanding how people perceive +their workplace environment informs how you guide them. Managing that +perception will in part determine how effective you are as a manager. +Perception forms from experience. Our historical experience built our +intuitions about current experience. Managing how that historical experience +impacts perception of current events is a part of leadership. + +## Perception is sticky + +Perception tends to be sticky. It's formed by historical context and experience +and it combines with our tendency toward [confirmation +bias](https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Confirmation_bias) to stay in place. Once +we have a particular perception we tend to notice facts and events that support +that perception and discount the ones that don't. As a result, when a negative +perception forms in someone it can be particularly challenging to dislodge it. +Every misstep, every supporting event or action that supports the perception is +magnified and held up as an indication that nothing has really changed. While +every attempt to address the problems and improve is forgotten or thought to be +of little importance. + +It's in our best interest as managers to avoid allowing a negative perception +to take hold. Once they do, you may never be able to dislodge them. It's very +hard to recover from the formation of a negative perception. It will color the +culture and will poison the intuitions of your employees until it is changed. + +## Perception is communicable + +When we encounter a new situation, such as a new job, we look to those around +us to help develop our intuitions about what to expect. We don't have +experience to inform our intuitions yet, so we rely on the experience of +others. If the prevalent perception of everyone is negative then we'll +gravitate toward a negative perception as well. + +Once we begin to drift that way, then our confirmation bias kicks in and helps +to push us even further in that direction. It takes a lot of effort to go +against that cultural drift once it starts. Both the sticky and communicable +natures of perception serve to make it one of the things that can make or break +a culture. Unfortunately, there is also about a 50/50 chance that you'll be +starting with positive perception from the beginning. This generally means that +you will often be starting out with a handicap. + +## Perception is rarely a reflection of reality + +Our perception is affected by a lot of internal factors. We are quite good at +rationalizing our own beliefs and justifying them. We also aren't usually in +possession of a full understanding of everything we experience. Our perception +is colored as a result. Both negative and positive perceptions tend to be somewhat +misinformed. A negative perception will usually blow things out of proportion. +It will paint things in an overly negative light and discount the positive +aspects of a situation. + +Perception can create worry where it's not warranted. It can create unrealistic +hope. It colors our reality in ways that can prevent rational and realistic +expectations. The more out of line with reality a perception is the more +incorrect the reactions to events will be. + +# Great leaders shift perceptions + +Many great leaders demonstrated a capacity to manage the perceptions and the +intuitions of those they lead. In a sense managing perception is about causing +a paradigm shift in how people approach their situation. Sometimes the shift is +small. Sometimes the shift is big and sometimes it is small. + +I think the best leaders work to shift perception in ways that better match +reality. A perception that is closer in line with reality leads to better +outcomes. It reduces blind spots and allows an organization to react +appropriately to its environment. + +## They acknowledge the historical context + +You can't shift perception without first acknowledging why the current one formed. +The first step to correcting bad perception is to acknowledge that it exists for +a reason. If the perception is lingering after a previous bad reality then before +you can show that the reality has changed you have to acknowledge the bad reality +that came before. If the perception is caused by poor communication of reality +then acknowledging that failure is the first step to correcting it. + +Shifting someone's perception is much harder if you try to pretend the perception +doesn't exist. You have to confront the perception and acknowledge the causes to +generate enough of a shock to begin moving them in another direction. + +## They highlight additional context + +After acknowledging the cause of incorrect perceptions, you need to work to +counteract the force of our confirmation bias. Highlighting the context that +gets ignored. Emphasizing the importance of context that gets downplayed. This +gradually begins to shift perception. There is no shortcut here. It takes +consistency and time. You won't shift perception overnight. But if you stay +consistent and honest, eventually perception will be more in line with reality. + +## They recognize their own perception + +Great leaders also recognize they also have perceptions that can be just as +sticky as the people they lead. If the problem is that your perception is out +of line with reality then you won't be able to work to keep others perception +in line with reality We have just as much of a tendency toward confirmation +bias and we need to work just as hard to counteract it. Sometimes, when the +perceptions of those you lead differ from yours it's because you are the one +who needs an adjustment. \ No newline at end of file